This podcast episode explores the complex issues surrounding dementia and the challenges faced by families dealing with the disease. Through the stories of Margot, Diane, and Denzel, the episode delves into the ethical dilemmas, legal implications, and emotional struggles encountered in caring for individuals with dementia. It also touches on broader topics such as elder abuse, urbanization, tradition, environmental protection, and the impact of pesticides on pollinators. The episode raises important questions about accommodating the desires and new personalities of individuals with dementia, determining decision-making capacity, and honoring the autonomy and agency of those affected by the disease.