This podcast episode explores the power of messages to shape individuals' identities, expand possibilities, and inspire them to reach their full potential. Through the story of Reggie, an 11-year-old boy with a dream of becoming an architect, it reveals how messages, both positive and negative, can impact children's future aspirations and actions. Identity-based messages can positively influence motivation, persistence, and overall well-being, while social connections and relationships play a crucial role in mitigating the potential toll on physical health. The episode emphasizes the responsibility of schools and individuals to create environments that validate and support everyone's vision and potential.