This podcast explores the paradox of modern unhappiness despite increased living standards, interviewing an author researching this topic. The interview discusses the evolutionary tension between humans' needs for connection and autonomy, arguing that modern life overemphasizes autonomy, leading to decreased connection and happiness. The guest proposes that hunter-gatherer societies, prioritizing connection for survival, offer a contrasting model. Specific examples include the mandatory sharing of resources among hunter-gatherers and the modern tendency to prioritize individual desires over social connections, even in close relationships. The podcast concludes by suggesting small, habitual changes to rebalance connection and autonomy in one's life, improving overall well-being.